But here's the thing most people don't realize. That awkward silence usually has nothing to do with you at all. People just freeze up when someone new enters their bubble. It's like when a teacher walks into a loud classroom and everyone suddenly becomes fascinated with their shoelaces. Basic human behavior, nothing sinister.
The real reason everyone clams up? They're doing a quick scan to see what kind of mood you're in. Are you approachable right now or are you running on zero sleep and negative coffee? Should they risk asking you a question or wait until you've had a chance to settle in? It's a survival instinct really.
Think about it from their perspective. Nobody wants to be the person who asks where the stapler is when you've clearly just battled rush hour traffic without your morning brew. They're not plotting against you. They're just trying to read the room and decide if this is a good time to engage or if they should let you decompress first.
The silence isn't about secrets. It's about timing. And honestly, most of the time people were probably just talking about lunch plans or complaining about the weather anyway. Nothing earth shattering.
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Todays' Coffee Notes: Kopi Luwak (if you saw The Bucket List, you know what I'm talking about)
Kopi Luwak, also known as Civet or Cat Poop coffee, has attained a level of notoriety for its distinctive processing method, and spawned an array of copycat methods (elephants, birds, other small mammals). While an interesting concept, the ridiculous prices have spawned an industry that cages and force-feeds wild animals an imbalanced diet, so that they can harvest the beans. This is animal cruelty, plain and simple.
The lack of traceability means that any company can claim it's "harvested naturally" or "in the wild" without any tangible proof. We recommend avoiding this. ---
I hope we're not as pretentious as Nicholson's character.